Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Essential Keys to Being a Latin Lover


I recently received an email asking me if I could write about "being a Latin lover". This is a hard task, and I will probably have to think about it for a while because it's hard to describe the seducing technique of an entire group of people. Especially one that I’ve taken for granted as completely natural. But here are some of things I know and do:

*Self-Confidence: Regardless of your age, sex, or social position you must project confidence in the art of love

* Trust: Learn to gain the trust of your target. You goal is to make them feel comfortable with their body like they have never before

*Persistence: A consistent effort will show the object of your desire that you are committed to capturing their heart. Communicate your resolve and energy through you gaze, your words, and your passion. Make them understand all the wonderful things you could do and give to them.

*Be protective: of course in the non-freaky controlling way

*Celebrate: Life is a celebration and all Latins understand this. Everything they do involves in the enjoyment of some sensual experience.

Those are the key parts to form the foundation. You have to then use them:

1. Watch the sky: sunrises, sunsets, twilights, full moons. The sky is the canvas that paints everything the world feels. You should therefore admire it

2. Enjoy smells: All types of smells such as the smell of your lover's skin in the morning, or the way oregano and rosemary fill a kitchen.

3. Whisper your sweet nothings: it makes the experience so much more fun to have that special someone have to lean into you so that they can hear you tell them how amazing they are

4. Always be aware of what your target is saying: By listening to them you can find that they love something particular, and it makes it much easier to seduce them if you know that they love chocolate, or red flowers.